My Story
On 4th October 2025, I’ll be walking in the Shine Light Walk for Cancer Research. Here’s why… - My friends have had breast cancer. - Both of my granddads had lung cancer. - Both of my in-laws have had cancer. - My aunts have had cancer. - My personal reason (and it’s been a quick turnaround): I am currently undergoing tests to determine if I have Ductal Carcinoma in Situ (DCIS), which is an early stage of breast cancer. I’ll be having surgery on 20th October to remove all the milk ducts from my affected breast, and they will be sent for biopsy. DCIS is when cancer cells are confined within the milk ducts of the breast. For me, the affected breast has brownie-bloody discharge, which is one of the symptoms. If you notice any unusual changes in your breast or its shape, it’s important to get checked out as soon as possible. For the guys reading this: the milk ducts are the tubes that carry milk from the lobes of the breast to the nipple, so breast health is important for everyone, not just women. Be supportive of your partner, and encourage them to get checked. Be sensitive to their needs. It’s not about you in those moments of disclosure or what’s ahead, it’s about being a safe place to come to - an understanding adult man for her to turn to. It’s not about protection, and it’s definitely not about sex, but about being there for comfort and support. Understand that women often need to set firm boundaries during times like this, and respect those boundaries. The key is creating a safe space where both of you can share openly and vulnerably. If you have any concerns about your own health, I encourage you to take photos, keep a journal, and make a note of any body changes you notice. Early detection is key. I have a JustGiving page for Cancer Research UK. Any support is appreciated, whether it’s a donation or just sharing the page. You can help me to continue to raise awareness and support this important cause. Take Care, Caroline x
